28 Days Later…
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IMDB rating: 7.30 Plot: A powerful virus escapes from a British research facility. Transmitted in a drop of blood and devastating within seconds, the virus locks those infected into a permanent state of murderous rage. Within 28 days the country is overwhelmed and a handful of survivors begin their attempts to salvage a future, little realising that the deadly virus is not the only thing that threatens them. |
Actors: Palmer Alex,Hiltunen Jukka,Schneider David,Murphy Cillian,Sedgwick Toby,Huntley Noah,Dunne Christopher,Delamere Alexander,Gleeson Brendan,Hackney Justin,Horror,Sci-Fi,Thriller,
Im pregnant and in complete turmoil please help !!?
Hi ,i will try and make this question short enough so people will read it,as i do have a very confusing and bad past ….
Im 28 and i found out 3 days ago that i am pregnant..around 4-5 wks i think. The minute i found out i rang the docs,got a appointment,and i have now been referred for a abortion. Now i will tell you the reasons i have chose this and please tell me your honest opionin.
I was engaged to my fiance for 8 years,and i have 2 young boys age 7 and 4 ,2 years ago i came home from shopping ,me nad my boys ( age 5 and 3)at the time found my fiance hanging in our home,and he passed away a hour later.
Obviously im still grieveing,and i have had the worst 2 years of my life and miss him terribly.
Now i find myself pregannt by someone i have been seeing for around 6 months on and off,and i just feel so lost.I was on the pill,i never wanted to be in this situation.
I have 2 choices… i keep this baby,with a man i dont know as well as i should( i have told him and he wants me to keep the baby,but will not force me or make me feel bad ) my family will prob disown me,people who know about my finace who passed,may think im a heartless bitch,i will find a baby so hard….but most important my boys dont have their daddy anymore,and this child will….so how will they feel.
I wish things were diff…abortion makes me feel sick,i feel evil,selfish and a murderer.But i cant do anything else .
PLEASE HELP ME . Thank you.
Thank you all so much for your kind responses ,I did love my finace soooo much ,but stupidly i always worry what people think of me. My mum never wanted me to have the 2 sons i have now,so i know her reaction,she will call me stupid etc.I have had a very tough time in my life,at 20 my dad commit suicide,when i was 26 my fiance did,but yet im still here ,and im proud of that.
I feel like i know abortion is best.But i know i will hate myself for doing it for the rest of my life,but i have to put my boys first,there life has been disturbed enough. Evryone will say im selfish if i have this baby.x
They would disown me if i keep this baby i think,not if i aborted
I am so sorry.
I really feel for you and your situation.
I think it is completely up to you. Its your decision and no one can or should make it for you.
I hope whatever you decide that you will find peace in your life. Doesn’t sound as though you have had an easy time.
Bellasma | Feb 07, 2010
I am sorry you feel so lost in your situation and I can understand why you would. Nobody can replace your childrens father, ever. They know that and will continue to know that as they get older. I am very sorry for your loss.
The choice of whether to keep the baby is yours and yours alone. Either choice will forever change your life. What about adoption? Do you have a support person in your family you can talk to? Will you be able to live with the choice of an abortion?
I think right now you are in the thick of your emotions and overloaded. Maybe take some time to think it out before you rush into a decision?
I hope things get easier for you and you find peace in whatever decision you make.
Issy Due 5/24/10 | Feb 07, 2010
First of all, I don’t think ANYONE has a right to judge you for getting pregnant after your fiance’s death. You clearly cared very deeply for him and having sex with someone else after he’s gone doesn’t in any way diminish what you had with him.
Right now I think the best thing to do would be to take a few days and evaluate how you really feel about this situation. Ignore what other people would say about you having another child. Children and pregnancies happen to normal people. This isn’t the 1950’s, people have sex before marriage. Anyone who has a problem with the resultant children can shove it.
Ask yourself what YOU want to do. This child is as much your child as your two boys are. Your boys will adjust to having a new sibling. What really matters is how you feel about abortion and about having another baby. It sounds like the baby’s father will at least be minimally supportive. Your true friends will also stand behind you.
If you take a deep breath and a step back I think you’ll see that this can be done. I have no doubt you’ll love this baby just as much as you love your sons. If you’re going to always wonder "what if" and grieve the abortion, I’d choose to have the baby.
Good luck and I’m sorry about your situation. As I said, don’t listen to negative people who try to run your life.
drkangel210e | Feb 07, 2010
I think having an abortion will add more grief to your life. Maybe this child is a blessing and you should keep them and add positivity to your new life.
ratatouillewoo | Feb 07, 2010
Do what’s right for you and the children you have that are already born.
Why would your family disown you? If they are gonna be that way about it just tell them you had a miscarriage.
~Pro-Choice Momma; Have had an abortion <no regrets> and I have a 13 month old daughter <no regrets>. I believe in protecting my daughter’s choice.
Abortion: There is a Consensus
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsSQiazUv go
Divine Oubliette | Feb 07, 2010